As we all have problems from time to time, it sometimes is nice to hear that other people are having the same problems. Not that I wish this on anyone, but again I don’t feel alone on this. As I was looking around on the net, I found a great article about how nagging the opposite sex is more then what we see.
Taken from enotalone.com:
“From a male standpoint, nagging is a continual, indirect, negative reminder about the things he hasn’t done, or about his shortcomings. It happens mainly at the end of the day when a man needs fire-gazing time.
The more the nagger nags, the more the victim retreats behind the kind of defensive barriers that drive the nagger crazy. These barriers include newspapers, computers, homework, a gloomy face, amnesia, apparent deafness and TV remote controls. No one likes being on the receiving end of subdued rage, ambiguous messages, self-pity and blame or having guilt continually thrust at them. Everyone avoids the nagger, leaving her alone and feeling resentful. When she starts feeling even more trapped, unrecognized and isolated, the victim may suffer even more.
The more the nagger nags, the more isolated she becomes.
The only real outcome from nagging is the destruction of the relationship between the nagger and the victim because the victim feels he has to continually defend himself. “
To read the whole article, click here… http://www.enotalone.com/article/4885.html
